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Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Perspective


I recently spent a weekend at the beach for the first time this summer.  As I sat on the beach, I reexperienced how calming it is to watch the waves break on the sand and listen to the sound of the surf.  Anxieties seem to drop away with each  crashing wave.  Later I was thinking that one of the benefits of being at the seashore is that it gives you perspective.  Being so close to the enormity of the ocean can make individual problems seem smaller, while the rhythm of  the waves relaxes one’s breathing for further physical relaxation.

Perspective is a crucial element to a sense of well-being. 


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Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Overreacting


There is no such thing as an overreaction. I know that may sound odd to most of you reading this, since you can probably think of many instances when you or someone around you has “overreacted” to something or taken something the wrong way. Actually, you’re simply (or complexly) reacting to something else instead of what seems to be going on on the surface.

Take an example of a husband and wife in couples therapy. They’re recounting an argument to the psychotherapist that occurred earlier in the week.

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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Not a Dress Rehearsal...

A smart woman said to me years ago, when I was stuck in ambivalence, “this is not a dress rehearsal.” My life was being lived in a state of indecision, as if waiting for the opening night curtain to rise. At the root of this indecision for me, as is common for many people, was a deep sense of ambivalence.

Ambivalence is not about not knowing what you want.

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Monday, April 20, 2009

The First Session

New patients are often unsure what to expect in the first session, how to behave, what to say. There can be anxiety about starting a new process and opening up to someone you’re meeting for the first time.

The first session is an opportunity for both the therapist and the patient to get a sense of each other and whether they can work well together.

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Monday, March 23, 2009

Corporations as Dysfunctional Families

Stress in the workplace is not just due to staff cuts, tight deadlines, and limited resources. There is also a subtler, pervasive factor contributing to employees’ stress. That is the underlying dynamic of the corporation and the individuals that make it up. I think of corporations as big dysfunctional families. The CEO is the admired and feared parent. Coworkers are siblings, complete with rivalry.
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Monday, March 9, 2009

Separating Feelings from Actions

How often do you hear people say “you shouldn’t feel like that…” Maybe you even say it to yourself. What these kinds of statements imply is that you can and should control your feelings on a regular basis. However, it is enormously difficult to carry out. And it may not even be wise to deny or repress your feelings. They don’t go away, they just get pushed down only to come up in some other way, such as somatic symptoms, depression, anxiety, or sleeplessness.

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Sunday, February 22, 2009

Managing Relationship Conflicts


One of the main concerns I hear from patients is how to handle stress and conflicts in relationships. Why is it that sometimes it’s hardest to get along with the people with whom you’re most interested in having harmony? We all have ways of dealing with stress in relationships, and to complicate matters further, these styles can sometimes conflict in ways that exacerbate the problem.

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